Detachment is a skill that everyone should learn to master as soon as they can in life. When you become detached from the outcome, an experience, relationships, and life will become easier for you. When it comes to evolving your soul, the biggest issue that we all have run into is not wanting to let go of the experience or the situation. I believe the decades of conditioning we have experienced have tricked our minds into thinking it is okay to stay stagnant, so when we get the urge to do something out of the normal matrix, our brains panic. It will do whatever it takes to stay in the normal safe space. If that means to create anxiety about a future scenario to stop you from moving forward, it will do it. We have to always remember our brains are tools and antennas, but we ultimately have the power to program if we need to.

Detaching From The Experience

Being detached from everything is really just staying present in the moment. Enjoying what is happening in front of you and allowing the experience to move on without issue. From my own personal experience, I’ve had plenty of moments where I was out with friends, and I had the best time. I was extremely carefree, in the moment, and none of my problems existed. After coming down from that high of an experience, I could not stop thinking of all the memories I had made. In that moment, it was hard to face that I had to leave that experience and go back to the mundane job I had at the time. So, because I did not let that experience go after it happened, depression formed because I wanted to keep experiencing that memory. Where I went wrong was focusing on the experience with my friends instead of staying present and focused on how I could create another experience like that. No matter what type of experience, it is vital to detach to allow for new experiences to be created.

Detaching From Relationships

Detachment from relationships is one of the biggest setbacks I’ve had in all the years that I have been on Earth. When we are set in the routine of the relationships we have around us, because of the memories or being related to them. Loneliness is the number one cause for relationships lasting longer than they should. Loneliness will force you to confront the internal issues you have been running from. When you are okay with being alone, detachment is simple. The purpose of the relationships we have on earth is to give us an experience that will help us evolve our souls and learn the lessons we are supposed to learn. I was told by a psychic medium that we have agreements with everyone that we encounter in our human lives. Before we came to earth, we spoke with certain souls and agreed that he/she would give us an experience that would help us in the end. When the relationship lingers beyond the agreed-upon time, then things will start to take a turn for the worse. When we allow relationships to dissolve at the right divine time, we leave ourselves open to welcome new ones. And this is not something to overthink; your soul will know when the time is right to let go. Go with the flow of your life. Don’t let the worldly connections you have with people stop you from cutting them off when they cross a boundary or no longer serve a purpose.

Detaching From The Outcome

Hyper-focusing on the outcome of a scenario is the perfect way to heighten your anxiety, expectations, and stress levels. We have to learn to detach from the outcome of an experience and trust that the outcome that is meant for you to experience will happen. Remember, you created the plan of your life prior to being born into the life you are currently living. Look at it this way: if you knew for absolute certainty that you curated your life down to every single detail, wouldn’t you trust that you are going to make sure you have the highest outcome possible? If the answer is no, then you have some learning to do as far self self-love, self-esteem, and inner confidence. But if the answer is yes, then detachment is an easy concept to grasp. You are and have always been in full control of your life, from the beginning all the way to the end. Imagine your life as a book, and you are the author, except you have forgotten all the detailed plans you made. After everything has been written, you now have to read it (experience life) to see what you can fix, improve, and learn from. If you keep this concept in your mind, you will never have to worry about the outcome of any situation as you live life on Earth. 

Staying Balanced with Detachment

If you are someone who detaches a little too well from everything, then this section is for you. I also feel like this part will resonate with me heavily because sometimes I find myself detaching too hard from everything. As the old saying goes, “too much of one thing is not good for anyone.” We don’t want to detach too much because negative outcomes could also arise. Imagine if you detached yourself from an important relationship and something happened to the person, which then removed the ability to reconcile with them. Or if you detached from an outcome so much that you lost all motivation to continue to put in the effort to reach what you were trying to accomplish. These scenarios are dramatic but also very realistic in the sense that these types of scenarios happen every day. Our souls are the best guides we will have in this lifetime, and deep down, you know when you are not handling a situation the way that you know how it should be handled. Life can be very complex sometimes, but we always have and will know the answers that suit us best. 

Trust Your Higher Self

Detachment done the right way is nothing to be afraid of or looked down on. We are all just souls having a human experience. This journey on Earth is not our final stop, and it is only a school where we learn the best lessons that will help us be better souls and get back to our source. Trust yourself while on this wonderful journey because you are the perfect guide for this tour. To be able to trust your higher self enough that you can detach from any situation means you will have the life that you have always dreamed about. You know that you are being guided by your higher self, ancestors, and spiritual team to make sure you complete your mission on Earth. Never lose sight of yourself or your dreams; anything is possible when you believe in yourself.

Examples of Healthy Detachment

Examples of a healthy detachment are removing yourself from a relationship that does not make you happy anymore and not allowing the fear of loneliness to keep you there. A popular detachment that I have also experienced is leaving your hometown. It is so hard to leave a place that has become your haven as evolved from a young human to an adult human. Not knowing what is out there but still willing to leave behind everything you’ve ever known because you know something greater is out there for you is the peak detachment we should all strive to have. No matter how you do it, the key is to just do it! Life will flow the way you want each time you detach. Chase those experiences and learn, that’s what we are here for!

Let’s chat in the comments. What are some ways you practice healthy detachment to ensure you are keeping yourself protected?